La Phalene

July 29, 2010

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This morning I woke up fifteen minutes earlier to fit a shower in and stumbled around making breakfast and trying to collect the scattered pieces I’d need as part of my day. Leaving on time, at a brisk trot for the bus stop, my morning mumbling and singing to myself was innterupted by a man who wished to let me know I was pretty, followed by sexy, followed by “a big woman”, I can only assume he was refering to my butt. Yech.

I picked a bunch of wild flowers, butter and eggs and the dandelion cousin that grows in sprays with small blossoms. They’re in a glass of water on my desk now, turned to put their best features forward. Having a month at my job, I’m starting to get cozy at my desk and thinking about decorating, though as yet I’m not sure how. Maybe a square of pretty wrapping paper as wall paper?

July 26, 2010

Moving up!

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Like most of the world who has time to waste time on the internet, when I’m not in school, I work a white collar job, which just promoted me. I’m Accounts Receivable now! More horrifying, I have trouble spelling “Receivable”

N, the previous person holding this postion and I’m getting praised lots and lots, which is making me terrified I don’t measure up. Such is life.

July 10, 2010

Adventures of Zebra Butt

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Note, post contains details about Phalene’s sexuality. Please only click past the fold if you’re interested, if you’re a parent or otherwise seeking to protect your sanity and dignity, check out this music video by the Poxy Boggards instead :

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July 8, 2010

The Unbearable Warmth of Canada

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Time passes, scalp woulds slowly heal. This morning I woke up with a scream, as mothboy had affectionately thrown out his arm across my pillow, trapping and pulling the hair on the right side of my head so that the stitches stretched. As usual, profuse apologies, just as the other night when he walloped my nose but good when rolling over and walked on my foot.

Who needs a D/s relationship to get beaten up? Ironically enough, I’m the clumsy one.

A tropical storm was puffed up from somewhere down south, turning the city into one giant humid sauna. Ontario and the Maritimes are likewise afflicted. Me, at work, I’m typing this out on my office lunch break while my fellow employees camp out in front of the barely cooling air conditioner.  Customers are all crabby or on vacation, and work decided to shut down for two weeks.

Not wanting to find myself cash short, I took their option for a promotion of sorts. I’m going to learn to do collections on accounts on Monday. Yipee.

Since I update so infrequently as to have mentioned little about my employment, I work for [redacted, let's call them Acme Telesales], selling business guides.  It’s not a bad gig. Most people quit after a few days, but I’ve stuck it out and discovered a mild talent for sales. The bosses are all geeks and I need to organize a lunch time D&D campaign, which is the only nerve racking part.

And it’s hot. Oh lord, this office is making me drip from every pore. any more of this and I’m coming to work in a bathing suit.

July 5, 2010

Medical Process

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So at 9:00 AM this morning I had two cysts removed from my head. Previously speaking Dr. V had been unable to get the surgery room, and we’d discussed the removal but had to put off the actual cutting, so this was D-day for head lumps.

For those of you not informed already, I have hereditary sebaceous cysts, which are basically big benign, ingrown hairs. The only problem with them is awkward placement and progressive engorgement, since to outside observers it’s a blind little bump the same colour and hairiness as the rest of my scalp. However lump number one had increased in size from its starting point when it grew in with puberty, to poking out of my hair like a disfiguring iceberg, and lump number two was on the side of my head, where headbands squooshed it uncomfortably. So, it was time to take advantage of Canadian medical care.

I’d laid the ground work for getting it done. Dr. Old at the school clinic, Dr. GS in dermatology, and finally one consultation with Dr. V, the actual surgeon, since Dr. GS no longer performed the procedure (I assume due to his advanced age). After checking myself in (accompanied by mothboy) for moral support, the nurse prepped me to lie on a narrow, high table by covering it with a fitted sheet so worn it had holes in it. She then gave me stern instruction not to touch the sterile equipment, and after she left mothboy wandered around the room conspicuously not touching things and pretending to sneeze on the table from about a foot away.

Dr. V showed up after a few minute’s wait lying on my back and at my request the doctor provided a narration of the procedure. Bactine swab followed by lidocaine needles that the doctor promised would be ‘a bit painful’. Which means “very painful” in doctor speak, and given a fairly high thresh hold on my part, I weighed it against the pain of a migraine and found it lacking, though each deep-ish poke was followed by a loud “Yow!”

At this point, needle phobic mothboy “had to go to the bathroom”, a fact that he maintains was the absolute truth, and he disappeared. Doctor and nurse clucked what a poor thing he was.

As I do in stressful situations, I keep up a steady stream of babble related to my interest in the procedure, making sure the doctor knew everything that was going on. She began to cut with snick, snick like sounds and an uncomfortable tugging sensation on my scalp like she was pulling my hair. When asked, she said she was cutting the skin, but she might as well of been poking me over and over again for all I could feel or see.

And that’s when we heard the whistling. Twisted Nerve, lovingly replicated enough that it sounded like someone was whistling just outside the door, the music from a scene in a film where the assassin impersonates a nurse to kill the hero. My doctor’s cell phone.  So my doctor liked Kill Bill and has a weird sense of humor. I like her!

Shortly after cyst number one was out, mothboy reappeared and was duly teased.  Cyst two, much smaller and on the side of my head came out. Mothboy left again, this time due to actual queasies.

And then came the cleanup. Scuttling out with alacrity befitting of a surgeon, Dr. V departed, trailing a medical student leaving only her business card and the nurse who was to clean up.

And there was a lot more blood than they realized. I proceeded to go into shock, while the nameless nurse tried to get me to sit up, making the fainting woozies worse and wash my blood drenched hair without disturbing the stitches. Blood got everywhere. “Oh shit” quoth she.

I never, ever want to have a medical professional do something behind my head and start swearing. Nameless nurse swabbed down my hair and floor. I babbled. Mothboy squeazed my icey, now yellow coloured foot and brought it to her attention that I was going into shock (or to be honest, I’d got there already and was trying to buy a local map from the gift store at the train station). Nameless nurse announced that she couldn’t tell by looking at my face, as I’m so pale.

Parked on another bed in a waiting area, I camped out for half an hour while a second identical but also nameless nurse (I think there’s a law that says that nurses have to be wiry, petite women with highlighted blonde hair) took my blood pressure and accused me of being a medical student since I could correctly use “vasovagal” and explain that my blood pressure was usually either normal or low-normal. Duly flattered, I crawled home with mothboy’s help and called in sick for the other half of my shift.

Now I have mild discomfort in my scalp and hair all spiked up from the sterile solution and spray on wound sealer I was bathed in, something I can’t wash until tomorrow. My hair is also tinted red from bactine/blood. Yipee.

July 2, 2010

Oh Canada!

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Canada day, I went out with friends in the evening and played a short game of scrabble, learning new rules (apparently you can spell multiple words in a turn) and then went to watch the fireworks at the old port. As usual there were massive crowds, and we pushed through to try to get a good spot to watch. However as luck would have it, instead of shooting them off from the same location that the annual international fireworks festival chooses, we got smack dab across the water from where they were letting them off. I was so close I could see the little flaming dots as the actual firework shot into the sky.

The show must have lasted ten minutes and specialized in being big and bright. My favourite was the spiraling sparklers that whizzed up several stories into the air in a serpentine of little points of light, but they had the usual multi-coloured firework pops, and some sort of red tinted firework that exploded twice, for a double blossoming effect.

After fireworks, there was a  general push to go to a Macdonald’s, and Mothboy horrified us with tales of the improperly cleaned milkshake machine. I had chicken nuggets, something I hadn’t tried for several years. Last time they were disappointing little dried out lumps, but either the health conscious rebranding phase has blown over or these ones were more fresh, and suitably moist and greasy, grey inside, rather than glaring white, and full of hot salt and oil.

I’m not sure how I feel about the hideous lime green new look that they decided to institute. Mothboy thinks it’s stylish, but the horrid lime and red colour scheme and tan-zebra patterned tables suggest cheap wood, and a sushi bar with issues, not wholesome unhealthy treat food. Perhaps it’s not helped that the biggest picture on their menu is now the enormous salad, which feels like the obvious pandering it is. Whatever, at least the mainstay of my childhood desire has been restored to its former glory. Mmmm, generic chicken parts!

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